It's interesting, and sometimes disconcerting, to find out who can be counted on when you need a helping hand. Some of your "dearest friends" will let you down, and some people you have written off will come out of the woodwork and shower you with badly needed love and attention.
Your friends will always help
I contacted my friends—especially former clients—in writing my book, 200 Letters for Job Hunters, from which this text is taken. I was announcing the project, asking for permission to use their materials, and looking for advice and ideas. I was reaching out for support.
I was surprised at the positive responses. They really lifted me and made me feel the whole project was worthwhile. There was one letter I will never forget.
Kay Tubbs said, "My advice: Go for it! It's perfect. I would buy it (and recommend it) in a heartbeat. It would also solve a personal problem I have, of not being physically close enough to utilize your services. (It's probably a good thing—I'd be tempted to mortgage the house to hire you as a permanent 'life consultant.')" That felt really good.
Some friends didn't help, and that was disappointing, but not devastating. Maybe they were busy or had other priorities. What I've learned myself, and through my clients' journeys, is that you never know who will help until you ask.
You'll find that most of your friends will assist you, too, and their heartfelt response may surprise and delight you.
Now it's time to put pen to paper, or fingers to keyboard. Take this moment to draft your letter. Here are a few sample letters to get you started.