We try to resolve this at a deep level--for the long-term, not just for "now."
My chief tool is to ask questions. Knowing which questions to ask is one of the key things I do. (Someone once said that the best therapist is one who can say "absolutely nothing" at exactly the right moment.) And I think this is what I do.
I also use written exercises, and standardized tests when they are appropriate.
Suggested Topics for Discussion:
Why do people have trouble deciding which job they want?
The media is painting a very black picture of unemployment. What are some of the positive things happening in the world of work? (Well, for one thing, there's a revolution going on in job-finding.)
What can this unemployment now teach us? (For one thing, it is a preview of the future. "Job security," working 40 years for a company is practically a thing of the past. It is no longer possible to take a job and "forget about it." In the future people may change jobs four to five times in a lifetime. Therefore, we must be ready, plan, pack our parachutes, and be ready to jump.)
How has job-hunting changed?
Why is job-finding a sales job--and how do you do it?
What are some of the helpful community resources? (Like books, job networks, community college courses, and organizations.)
I hope this helps, Dottie. See you soon!
Bill Frank