BF: I'd say, "I would like to follow your recommendations and check back with you in a week or so, to let you know how things are going. Is that okay with you?"
Most friends will say, "Absolutely. I would LOVE to hear how Mary is getting along in her new assignment. I would LOVE to see if Brett was able to purchase that new business he was after."
Your friends like to stay connected and this helps them. It also lets your contact know that they can expect another call from you. This puts them on notice that today is not the last day of your work together, that there will be more phone calls and follow up.
Matt: Right.
#9: What can I do for you? (Hint: There's always something.)
BF: I'd say, "Steve, you've been very helpful today. I really appreciate everything you've said, and the thoughts, ideas, and leads you've given me. What can I do for you?"
Often, people say, "Well, there's nothing. I really don't need anything."
But my view is that there is always something you can give that will be helpful, something that takes you out of the role of being an "asker and a supplicant" and turns you into a giver.
For example: "You were looking for a restaurant in Atlanta and I'm going to send you some information about the Tips Point which is the best restaurant I've found in the South.
Or, "You said your daughter was thinking about colleges. Let me send her something on Cornell which is where I graduated." Or, "Your daughter is thinking about nursing school. My daughter just graduated from nursing school three years ago, let me set up a lunch for them."